Read this if you feel like a failure with your studies and profession

What is failure ? Does it even exist ? 

 Each and everyone reading this blog, should have opened this page for different reason. Either you already have your own point of view about failure, or maybe you feel lost and want to look out for other's opinion on this topic. 

Our current education system is made in a way that it's ultimate purpose, seems to find a job for us. If we don't find a job, or if the job found doesn't seem to stick with our personality, doesn't correspond to what we imagined, we might feel lost, and furthermore even feel like a failure. Nevertheless is it our fault ? Is it our fault that that particular degree is the only way to enter into our dream job ? Is it our fault that this whole system is made just to find a profession and not develop knowledge in that field ? How can you define yourself as failure ? 

Not everybody has the opportunity to have an education. Not everybody enters into the university/the course they want to. Moreover even if they get access to enter, in some countries (like where I did my studies), there is selection even after your entrance into the faculty. There can be selection in the fourth or/and fifth year for example. Even with good scores, you can end up in a master which wasn't your priority. I have seen in my close friend circle, students who once entering the internship, beginning to understand more about the practical aspects of the job, and questioning about their continuation in that field. Owing to the fact that,  indeed, some professions can be understood more clearly only through practical experiences. All this to say, you can be lost sometimes. 

It's normal...  

                    and seriously failure is just part of the life. Imagine that somebody just failed in their high school and couldn't go to his/her favourite university. It's not even sure, that this person would have found a job if he/she actually had an opportunity to enter into university. Even if they found a job it's not sure that they actually like to do it heartfully, and not just for financial problems. Even if they like it, it's not sure that they will have that job secured forever. I am not trying to be discouraging but think about this. The most unfortunate and fortunate thing in life is the same thing, that nothing is permanent in this world. There is no one position where everything is safe, secure and perfect. The thing that you are worrying about today, even if you had it, nothing gives you the guarantee for it to be with you forever. Risk will always be there, always, somewhere hidden. In fact, isn't it just how life is designed ? 


Failure exist ... but it just has different meaning from what we thought it is. 

We think of it this way 



but look at it in a different angle, it's already a bit more beautiful then we thought


The idea is to eventually come back stronger. 




Thank you for reading my little article. Hopefully it gave you a little companionship. 




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